Dating After Divorce

 

Stop Chasing, Start Choosing

 

A step-by-step guide to breaking old patterns, dating with confidence, and attracting a secure, emotionally available partner—without the anxiety, overthinking, or settling.

 

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If You’re Tired of Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men,

This is for you.

You’ve done the healing. You’ve read the books. You know the red flags.


So why do you keep ending up with the same type of man?

  • The one who is hot and cold
  • The one who “isn’t ready for a relationship” but still keeps you around
  • The one who pulls away just as you start to feel close

It’s not bad luck. It’s a pattern.

And if you don’t shift it, you’ll keep repeating it.

  

What You’ll Learn in This Course

 

 

How to Spot Emotionally Unavailable Men—Before You Get Attached

  • The subtle signs of avoidant behavior in men (before you waste your time)
  • How to tell the difference between a secure man and one who will leave you anxious

The Biggest Red Flags to Watch for—Before You Sleep with Him

  • The top five red flags women ignore (and why they keep falling for the wrong men)
  • How to tell if he’s love-bombing you or actually emotionally available

How to Handle Dating Anxiety & Overthinking (Without Sabotaging Yourself)

  • The five-second pause method to stop reacting and start responding with confidence
  • A simple nervous system reset when your anxious attachment is triggered

The 10 Questions to Ask on the First Three Dates

  • How to quickly determine if he’s relationship-ready (without scaring him off)
  • The one question that will instantly tell you if he’s emotionally available

How to Shift from “Will He Pick Me?” to “Do I Even Want Him?”

  • Stop chasing validation and start choosing men from a place of power
  • The mindset shift that will make you magnetic to secure, high-quality men

 

 

This isn’t just another dating course—it’s a complete nervous system and mindset reset for love.

 

 

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Who This Course Is For

  • Women who are tired of attracting emotionally unavailable men
  • Women who want to feel confident and secure while dating
  • Women who are done wasting time on the wrong men and ready for something real

Dating confidence isn’t just about “knowing the signs.” It’s about changing how you show up in love.

Meet Colleen Nelson, MA, LPC, EMDR

 

I’m Colleen Nelson, a Pleasure Therapist, Nervous System Expert, and Somatic Healer specializing in helping women break free from dating patterns that keep them stuck in cycles of overthinking, chasing, and attracting emotionally unavailable men.

I hold a Master’s in Counseling (MA) and am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with advanced training in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). My expertise in attachment theory, nervous system healing, and somatic embodiment allows me to help women not just intellectually understand their patterns—but rewire them on a deep, cellular level so they stop repeating them.

For years, I worked in private practice as a trauma therapist, specializing in helping people heal from complex trauma, attachment wounds, and emotional dysregulation. I saw how deeply our nervous system impacts our relationships—and how healing it can radically shift the way we experience love, intimacy, and connection.

I created this course because I know firsthand what it feels like to:

  • Attract avoidant men over and over again, no matter how much inner work you’ve done
  • Mistake inconsistency for chemistry because it feels familiar
  • Feel anxious and overthink every text, waiting for validation
  • Fall for potential instead of reality, believing love is something you earn instead of something that should feel secure from the start

But I also know what it’s like to heal these patterns, rewire attraction to secure love, and date from a place of confidence, clarity, and self-trust.

This is what I want for you.

With over a decade of experience in somatic therapy, trauma healing, and nervous system regulation, I designed Dating After Divorce: Stop Chasing, Start Choosing to be the course I wish I had years ago.

If you’re ready to break free from old dating patterns and start choosing emotionally available men with ease, I’d love to guide you inside this course.

You deserve love that feels safe, secure, and deeply fulfilling.

 

📩 Enroll today and start dating differently.

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Take the first step toward secure, confident dating today.

 

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